FAQS

To curate an experience of this scale that includes, refreshments, snacks, clean sheets, towels, lube, poppers, etc. requires time, energy, labor and most importantly, money.

Although we’d love for all of our events to be free, hosting events of this nature for free simply isn’t possible.

Additionally, time and energy goes into the recruitment, maintenance, and scaling of this group.

The group remains exclusive because we want to create an intentional community with shared values and chemistry.

Additionally, these groups are meant to be a safe place for play and exploration, and building safety and chemistry takes time. We want all members to have a rapport with one another, and that’s only possible with consistent members.

In order to do that, we need consistent interaction and attendance, which is why your consistent participatiion is required.

No, these groups are exclusive groups and all new members are careful vetted to ensure that they align with our rules and community values.

No. Be brave and just show up. I’m sure you’ll be pleasantly surprised.

You don’t. You just have to join and find out.

But also, let’s be realistic. No one is attracted to everyone so just accept that there will be both people you are and aren’t attracted to in the group.